
Struggling financially after bereavement? Where to get help
Losing a loved one is an incredibly difficult experience. Financial worries can add further stress during an already overwhelming time. From funeral costs to changes in household income, bereavement can create unexpected financial challenges.
If you’re struggling financially after losing someone close to you, there are various forms of support available to help you navigate this difficult period.
Understanding the costs of bereavement
Funeral expenses, legal fees, and reduced household income are some of the immediate financial pressures people face after a bereavement.
The average cost of a basic funeral in the UK can cost between £3,000 and £5,000. If there was no financial plan in place, this can leave families struggling to cover costs.
Financial help for funeral costs
If you are responsible for arranging a funeral and struggling to pay, you may be eligible for support:
- Funeral Expenses Payment (England, Scotland, and Wales): if you receive certain benefits, you may be able to claim this payment to help cover burial or cremation costs, travel expenses, and other funeral-related costs. Check your eligibility.
- Funeral Support Payment (Scotland only): available for those on low incomes, this provides financial assistance to cover funeral costs for people in Scotland. Find out who can apply and when.
- Bereavement Support Payment: if your spouse or civil partner has passed away, you may qualify for this benefit to help with living costs.
- Local Council assistance: some local councils provide Public Health Funerals for those who cannot afford funeral costs. You will need to visit your local council website to learn more.
Managing household finances after a loss
Losing a partner or family member can significantly impact household income. Here’s where you can seek help:
- Check your benefits entitlement. You may be eligible for Universal Credit, Housing Benefit, or Council Tax Reduction.
- Contact creditors and service providers. If you’re struggling with bills, inform creditors, mortgage providers, or utility companies. Many have bereavement support teams to help with payment plans or temporary relief. You may want to seek the help of a money adviser when negotiating.
- Grant support. Charities like Turn2us, Macmillan Cancer Support, and The Royal British Legion offer financial aid to those in need.
Dealing with debts after bereavement
If you or the deceased had debts, it’s important to understand your rights and responsibilities.
- Joint debts remain the responsibility of the surviving borrower. Speak to creditors about possible repayment plans.
- Debts solely in the deceased’s name are typically settled from their estate. If there is no estate, these debts may not need to be paid.
- Seek free debt advice. Organisations like StepChange, Citizens Advice, and National Debtline can provide free guidance on managing debts.
Emotional & practical support
Financial worries are just one part of grief. Emotional support is just as important. There are many charities and organisations that provide bereavement counselling and practical guidance, including:
- Cruse Bereavement Support – offers free support and counselling.
- Marie Curie Bereavement Support Service – provides guidance on end-of-life and bereavement care.
- Sue Ryder Grief Support – offers online and in-person bereavement support groups.
Navigating financial difficulties after bereavement can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to go through it alone.
There are resources available to help with funeral costs, benefits, debt advice, and emotional support. If you’re struggling, reach out to the relevant organisations and seek the support you need to ease the burden during this difficult time.